why bother dating?

another rant here.

question to all u daters out there..

Why date someone if u're not even close to your dates?

let me give a situation.

boy and girl dates. girl however isn't even that close to boy, instead, girl is close to boy's best friend and tells the best friend everything.
boy becomes upset and hides a pain, which frankly, can't be expressed because its his own best friend.

which strengthens my question:
why date someone if u dont even trust them?

when u date someone, isnt that the person u're supposed to trust? the person you tell your feelings to, your thoughts and your ideas.
instead nowadays, couples, its just about the making out and the status.
but is that what relationship is nowadays?
isnt a healthy relationship based on communication, which frankly isnt honored anymore?
ask a couple very deep questions about their dates, and tell me, can they answer them? i dont think so.
ive known too many couples who arent even close to each other. they think they know each other, but they really dont.
if u're close to someone but wants to date another, my suggestion would be no.
why?
coz its going to cause lots of heartbreaks and pain and eventually murder and suicide.
okay just kidding but who knows.

so my question:
why bother dating if u're not even going to trust your dates?